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Relationship Inventory


An inventory of your relationship will help you organize your thoughts regarding your relationship. Try to answer these questions as honestly as you can.


1) I feel safe and secure with my partner.

    ___True    ___False

2) I can tell my partner my deepest and most private thoughts.

    ___True    ___False

3) I can trust my partner.

    ___True    ___False

4) My partner does special things for me.

    ___True    ___False

5) We make up quickly after fighting.

    ___True    ___False

6) I hold grudges. I don t tell my partner when I am angry, upset or annoyed.

    ___True    ___False

7) I feel left out; my partner puts the feelings of my children, parents or friends first.

    ___True    ___False

8) My partner never backs me up.

    ___True    ___False

9) My partner and I have different values.

    ___True    ___False

10) My partner embarrasses me in public.

    ___True    ___False

11) My partner and I have different sex drives; I am often frustrated and unhappy.

    ___True    ___False

12) My partner and I often disagree on finances.

    ___True    ___False

13) My partner and I often disagree about parenting our children.

    ___True    ___False

14) My partner never holds or cuddles me.

    ___True    ___False

15) My partner does not listen to me or understand how I feel.

    ___True    ___False

16) My partner talks about and shares his/her day with me.

    ___True    ___False

17) My partner and I spend time alone together.

    ___True    ___False


Based on your answers, you may have identified areas in your relationship that need further discussion. It would be helpful to bring these issues up in couples counseling. Once these issues have been identified, it is important to figure out how situations that cause you distress can be resolved. Impasses are common and frustrating. Your therapist will provide a milieu for you to talk about these issues safely.

You can also rank the issues in the order of their importance. Have your partner do the same and see what is most important to your partner.


Updated on Tuesday, 22-May-2001 20:15:17 EDT

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